Continued... I have so much to say about this whole 'nice guy' notion... Anyway, this post is dedicated to all the surrogate boyfriends, and all the guys out there who haven't told the girl their true feelings for her... I really like this song. 98 Degrees "Why (Are We Still Friends)". I think the lyrics to this song accompany my previous entries quite nicely. First this view is all through the 'nice / whiny guy's' view. You have to see both sides of the picture. In this case, maybe three sides. The whiny guy, the girl, and her (ex) boyfriend. Why's the (ex)boyfriend a fool? Are you hatin'? Maybe you two are JUST FRIENDS because friendship was what brought you to closer together... maybe because she really likes you as a person and loves your company, but there's no attraction........!!!! Maybe you two are JUST FRIENDS because she didn't know you liked her (you never confirmed it).. maybe she needs time for you to grow on her... So here is the song, boys!

We do almost everything that lovers do
And that’s why it’s hard, just to be friends with you
Every time your heart is broken by the fool
I want you to know that it hurts me too
It’s hard to wipe your tears away (tears away)
Knowing that you should be with me
Now tell me why

Why – why are we still friends
When everything says
We should be more than we are
And tell me why every time I find
Someone that I like
We always end up just being friends (Just Being Friends)

I would hate for you to find somebody new
Who you really love, cause it would mean losing you
But am I a fool girl not to say
If I’m always scared I’ll lose you anyway
Somehow somewhere I’ve got to choose (got to choose)
No matter if it’s win or lose
Now tell me why

I don’t wanna be like your brother
I don’t wanna be your best friend
I only wanna be your lover
When will this end
If I told you that I wanna be in your life
Then you could be the woman in mine