[PLAYING THE FIELD]
Inspired by a conversation with my friend...
Most important rule: You cannot fall. Gotta keep a cool front and emotionally, too. Keep ur options open and know that 3 is NOT a big number. Your motto should be 'the more the merrier.' Playing the field DOES NOT mean or imply casual sex. You can play the field, have lots of fun without even getting into the sex corner. If anything, try to stay away from sex, if you can, but get him tested anyway. Keep love out of the game. Don't forget! It's not cheating if you're not committed!
HOW TO STAY IN THE GAME ONCE YOU'VE PSEUDO-COMMITTED:
Have Reserves: (r-zûrv) tr.v. 1. To keep back, as for future use or for a special purpose. (See a potential, keep him in the Reserves.) 2. To set or cause to be set apart for a particular person or use. (See a potential, keep him in the Reserves for those days and nights your man do you wrong [SPLACKAVELLIE].) 3. To keep or secure for oneself; retain. (Before another woman locks him in the Reserves.)