BLOG: MEDIUM (LOVE STUFF)



As if my mind was read, I received a love question in my inbox. I was reading my old website to see my content, and I noticed a bit of love advice stuff, so I was delighted to get another love question.



Here's what my friend asked me. He'd also like to hear your responses: So here's a question...can a person like more than one person at the same time? Have you ever done so? In case both of the likees like that person back knowing he likes both girls, what should the person do?



My response was... of course a person can like two people at one time.. some are more serious than others though. like, some people in relationships may have tiny crushes here and there for other people. as for personal experience, i can't like two people at one time because when i get into a relationship, it's because i really truly like the person. i see no one else but him. i think sometimes people end up seriously liking two people at one time because either the significant other is not treating her well or they are drifting apart already, so she's moving on.. otherwise it's because she settled for less than what she wanted.. aka "the one" or at least someone that she really wants.



if both girls know the guy likes both girls, yet still like him... they must really like him a lot to put up with that. obviously someone will get hurt. even if he dates both girls... if they're okay with that, i wonder if he'd choose that option. eventually he might realize he's more compatible with one over the other, but does he really want to do that to both girls? i say he probably has to like one more than the other... but i think things work out the way it should... things might seem blurry now, but give it a few days, months... he'll figure it out.. he'll see who has more feelings for perhaps. who knows.. maybe one of the girls will end up dating someone else, and he'll be left with just one.